Sunday, May 17, 2009

Unresolved

How can you truly move on if you haven't dealt with unresolved feelings? Until you do, what you think is happiness and love, almost feels fake. You have this "what if" going on in the back of your mind. Those feelings have to be acknowledged. You have to try and resolve them before it leads to further hurt. No matter how much time has passed or how many relationships you've had in between, feelings are still there. You've done the whole "we'll be friends" thing. That person becomes your best friend. The one you run to when shit gets rough. The one you go to when something great has happened. You've even sat by and watched that person be in relationships with other people. Yet, you put your feelings aside and be the friend you've always been. The feelings you have are unwavering. To truly be happy, you have to work through this. There are instances where these feelings lead to true love and there are times when all that remains is the friendship. None of this happens if you don't face the unresolved feelings you have. This is always a confusing time, because generally we ignore these things and pretend to have moved on. A decision has to be made...

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